Is Your Marriage Hindering Your Personal Growth and Peace of Mind?

Personal Growth In order to grow as a person and a professional, peace of mind is extremely important. If a marriage is hindering your peace of mind, it’s pulling your life down, and this could just as well be true for your partner as well. Now, the real question is, how is someone supposed to know when something is seriously wrong with their marriage?

Why Early Fights are a Cause for Worry

It is common to mistake frequent fights during the early stages of a marriage as a sign that the couple is going through a simple period of adjustment. This is a mistake because couples are almost always the most accommodating towards each other right after they get married.

If the problems are frequent and the fights are intense even before the honeymoon period is over, at least consider the option of ending it before things become more toxic.

There is Cause for Annulment

In the United Kingdom, the laws regarding how you can annul a marriage are pretty clear and can be divided into two broad categories, as follows:

1. The matrimony did not have legal validity

2. The matrimony can be considered as defective

Go through the following situations, which are some of the valid arguments for a couple calling for an annulment of their legal union in court:

♦  One of the partners was already married to someone else at the time

♦  The matrimonial bond was a result of coercion/force/compromised judgement

♦  One of the partners had an STD, which was contracted before marriage

♦  The wife was pregnant with another individual’s child at the time of the marriage

Note that, while there are other grounds for annulment as well, these in particular are pointed out to demonstrate why simply having a cause for annulment in your marriage is often sufficient reason to completely destroy one’s mental peace and wellbeing. This, in turn, would inevitably impede personal and professional growth for as long as the marriage continues.

If any of these apply in your particular situation, seek legal advice on how you can annul a marriage in the fastest possible way.

Negative Mood During Interactions and Mutual Time Together

When one or both partners feel negative emotions in the presence of each other, whether it’s right after the marriage or twenty years in the future, it’s a bad sign.

Such negative vibes are also generally associated with:

♦  Lack of or complete absence of sexual contact

♦  Crying, complaining and thinking about a divorce more often than not

♦  Lack of appreciation, indifference or finding faults in each other’s actions all the time

♦  Resorting to substance abuse (alcoholism, drug abuse, etc.) on account of the sadness and negativity

When two people stay together, arguments and verbal fights are inevitable, but they are very rarely cause enough to consider an annulment or a divorce. Nevertheless, depending on the frequency of those fights and the intensity of the incidents, it could be a prominent sign that the future won’t be too pleasant for either of you. In such cases, it’s better to break it off than drag yourselves to destruction.

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