Pursuing justice and taking the moral high ground seem diametrically opposed. Justice can be a form of punishment, and punishment seems retaliatory. If you’re supposed to take the moral high ground, shouldn’t you avoid any form of retaliation, even if it’s justified under the law?

The dilemma is solved by recognizing your duty to be kind and fair to yourself. Being kind to yourself means not letting other people use and abuse you. It means not perpetuating the drama, putting your foot down when someone crosses your boundaries, and pursuing fairness when you get taken advantage of. Continue reading →