Release Expectations & Attachments

expectationsKate Spreckley – There is an intensity to our current process of awakening, healing and growth that is radically shifting and upgrading our energetic operating system. It can be difficult to find stability or traction as many of the things we are focusing on or wanting to bring into form feel like moving targets as all that is no longer needed or required is being eliminated and cleared. As a result, we are being forced to release any expectations and attachments and to review and revise what we are doing and where we think we are going. Continue reading

Expectations and Responsibility

expectationsJennifer Hoffman – It was an email from a longtime client, reader, and customer that prompted this week’s podcast and newsletter article because it was so sad and she was being treated so unfairly. She wrote:

“Last year and this year have been such a roller coaster. Not only what is happening in the world but also on personal level. I am shocked what happened with my family dynamics. I never thought my parents will feel like a total strangers or even enemies at times. I did not realized until couple of weeks ago how little they think of me and how they despise my husband so much. Continue reading

The bondage of expectation

expectationsThe Angels – We know so many of you feel as if you have been disappointed in this lifetime. Some of you feel you have disappointed yourselves. Many of you feel disappointed by others. Even more feel disappointed by life. Take heart! Each one of you, in every breath, has opportunity for change! Each one of you has the ability to release yourselves and others from the bondage of expectations, and to dance with life, exactly as you are, and exactly as life is.

We hear you now! “I expect to be treated kindly! I expect myself to do my best. I expect others to be honest! I expect my children to listen to me” and on the list goes. You may have these expectations dear ones, but what happens when you do not live up them? What happens when others do not? While it is fine to have expectations, you already know that life and others do not always act as you expect. You do not always live up to your own expectations. What then?

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The Unconscious Patterns of the Mind

patternsFrank M Wanderer – The society and culture in which you have grown up programmed those fixed patterns of the mind into you, and your identity who you are and what your job is in this world, is based upon those patterns. What need we know about this fixed conditioned mental patterns?

  1. The fixed patterns of your mind are individual, since they reflect the expectations of the particular environment in which you have been brought up. The expectations usually influence you unconsciously, almost like automatic deep programs of the mind. Continue reading

Manage Expectations to Master Outcomes

expectationsJennifer Hoffman – How many times do we set an intention and then get disappointed in the outcome? The problem is partly with our intentions, depending on who we’re making them for, and partly with our expectations, the things we hope will or won’t happen. These create what I call ‘false alignment’ because while we’re outwardly convinced of our intention, our internal alignment is off and we don’t get the results we want. Our expectations are a mirror of our fears and hopes, especially the ones we don’t want to admit to. But if we can keep our intentions personal and manage our expectations, then we can master our alignment and control our outcomes.

There are two kinds of intentions, those we make for ourselves and those we make for others. And while it is possible to set intentions for others, it is not a good idea because we cannot make them happen. We cannot manage other people’s energy or their outcomes, no matter how much we want to or how heart felt our intentions for them are.

There are three kinds of expectations, which represent what we really want or believe is possible. There are the expectations of success, of failure, and of others. The most powerful expectation is the one for success, but it can also be the most disappointing when it doesn’t work out. And the reason it doesn’t work as we hope or intend depends on what we’re expecting. Continue reading