Jafree Ozwald | June 10 2012
“Immature love says, “I love because I need you”, while mature love says “I need you because I love you.” ~Unknown
You may have been fortunate enough to meet someone in life who constantly triggers you. Unknowingly they push some hidden secret button which instantly launches inside you a state of anger, hurt, blame or fear where you turn into a frightened little mouse or a fire breathing dragon. This person could be your best friend, your lover, your mom, dad, sister or brother or neighbor across the street. It could also be an impersonal figure on TV, a political party, a work competitor, or perhaps a group of unjustified “terrorists” you’ve never met in a country you’ve never visited. Anyone who can set you off balance where your sense of peace is instantly lost is your greatest teacher and has a powerful enlightening lesson to give you.
Perhaps you’ve heard of a man named Jesus who spoke many truths, one of them was learning how to love thy enemy. This may be the greatest challenge humanity has ever come across because we simply have forgotten one key ingredient. The essential purpose of this teaching is that you get to immediately be catapulted into your life’s highest vibration and consciousness. When you embrace that person which you absolutely cannot embrace, and love that part which is deeply unlovable, your life takes on a truly profound meaning and mission. You discover a freedom, a limitless joy, and a lightness inside you that cannot and will not ever be disturbed by anything or anyone.
The amount of energy you lose in hating, judging or resisting someone is extremely draining and unnecessary. Whatever you resist, persists. You always become that which you cannot embrace, so no matter how awful the person may be, that one little thing which you just cannot accept about them is the master over you. We create enemies in life because there is something inside of them which we should not, cannot, and absolutely will not own within ourselves. For example, if you are upset and often triggered by your partner because they are a control freak, you are rejecting some part of yourself, at some moment in your day where you’re not ok with having no control. Our issues are always in our tissues, and usually date back many lifetimes or perhaps as recent as your childhood dramas. They can be so ingrained that you may be willing to get divorced, fired, or even choose to leave the country instead of choosing to have compassion for this person and change your reaction to come from love.
Every single one of us lives in some type of box. There’s the one with the physical walls that take the shape of your room, house, mansion or hut. Then there’s your metaphysical box, which holds some form of limiting beliefs and attitudes deeply impressed upon your consciousness. It makes you think, “I can do this, and I definitely cannot do that.” Whatever the formation the walls of your personal box have taken, don’t judge it. Every single problem or limiting belief is there for a very special reason. They are personally designed (by you) to give your mind the illusion of confinement or a false sense of security. This way you will develop a deeper longing and desire to explore this vast infinite Universe that is constantly expanding within you and all around you.
Your body and mind act like a radio tower that are constantly broadcasting a particular frequency of energy. Your thoughts and feelings are always sending out an “energetic blueprint” into the Universe about who you are and what you want. When you consciously raise your vibration you are sending out the HIGHEST frequencies and manifesting signals which return to you with actual physical results. The only reason that you’re not creating everything you want in life is because you are still sending out a frequency that is based in limiting thoughts and a lower vibration.